Clean up RedistributeCPU

[AlexanderSinn]

Summary

This PR simplifies RedistributeCPU to be independent of particle layout in preparation for #4404.
For this, a resize_geometric_grow() function is added to reduce the reliance on push_back. push_back is error-prone due to having the possibility to desynchronize the sizes of the individual component vectors if used incorrectly.

Additional background

Checklist

The proposed changes:

• fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
• add new capabilities to AMReX
• changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
• are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX users
• include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

[AlexanderSinn]

Performance test on a 64 core CPU with 8 MPI ranks and 4 threads per rank, warm electron plasma with WarpX

amr.n_cell = 128 128 128
amr.max_grid_size = 16
amr.blocking_factor = 16

Dev:

Name                                                       NCalls  Incl. Min  Incl. Avg  Incl. Max   Max %
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101      1.774      1.782      1.786   7.76%
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101      1.775      1.784      1.787   7.71%
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101      1.823       1.83      1.835   7.95%

PR:

Name                                                       NCalls  Incl. Min  Incl. Avg  Incl. Max   Max %
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101      1.748      1.787      1.797   7.76%
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101       1.74      1.771      1.778   7.70%
ParticleContainer::RedistributeCPU()                          101       1.73      1.739      1.744   7.56%

[AlexanderSinn]

WarpX CI passes with this change BLAST-WarpX/warpx#6042